Training that Works
Networking: It's the Way to Grow
Some people are born networkers. They see a room full of strangers as a buffet table of business prospects. But for many of us, the prospect of meeting new people with a view to gaining business is about as appetizing as making an appointment for a root canal. Here are some common concerns expressed by new networkers:
- I don't know how to talk to new people about what I do.
- I don't want to waste other people's time.
- I don't know where to go to network.
- Networking seems like a waste of time; I don't see results.
While these may seem like daunting obstacles at first, with practice and a couple of those deep breaths, you can overcome them all and network like a pro.
Know what you're selling. It pays to know in advance how you would briefly describe what you do, and what makes your services stand out from the crowd.
"I help companies empower their workforce and increase profit," is much more likely to spark interest and provoke follow-up on questions than a bland, "I'm a training consultant." Once you have your listener's interest, you can go on to give more detail. And say it like you mean it. If you don't sound confident about your services, you won't inspire the confidence in others that is essential to successful networking.
Provide something of value. The most successful networkers are those who have learned how to listen actively and identify opportunities. If the executive you're chatting with at a networking event tells you he's struggling to find good employees, don't mentally switch off because you're not an HR specialist.
Instead, ask yourself how you could be helpful. Do you know a great HR consultant you could refer him to? Did you just read an article about a related issue that you could offer to send him?
You won't always be able to provide assistance, but when you can, you accomplish at least two goals — first, you have shown yourself to be a connection worth keeping, and second, you've given yourself a great opportunity to follow up with your new contact, reinforcing the professional link that may one day result in new business.
Be open to networking opportunities. You shouldn't be shy about asking other clients what networking venues they find to be the most productive. You may be surprised how willing they are to help the newbie, and you'll know to "pay it forward" when you have a chance to lend a hand to someone else starting out.
Don't overlook some other prime, yet perhaps less obvious, networking opportunities. What about your former classmates at that dreaded class reunion, or the other parents shivering on the sidelines of your first-grader's weekly soccer game? It's perfectly acceptable to mention the kind of work you do and to ask about the professional interests of those around you. You never know what business development seeds you'll be able to plant until you try to get them in the ground.
The Internet also opens up new realms for networking. Reaching out to let colleagues from the past know what you are doing these days is a snap using any of the abundant business-oriented social networks such as LinkedIn. You'll be amazed at how delighted people are to hear from you and how interested they are in your new professional role.
Don't expect instant results, and do expect to work hard. Many new networkers become discouraged when their networking efforts don't translate immediately into tangible results. Understand that it takes many networking efforts to generate a piece of actual business. Think of each networking effort as a small piece of a bigger structure — your professional networks — that, over time, will establish your credibility and reputation.
If you decide, for example, that you are going to secure one speaking engagement for the next calendar quarter, and have one in-person networking meeting each week, you are much more likely to follow through and achieve those goals than if you simply have a vague plan to "get your name out there."
Networking seems daunting to many people when they first start out. But if you can inject some planning and a lot of enthusiasm, you will find it both professionally and personally rewarding. |