Insider Tips
Success is No Accident By now, you have probably heard of the book and movie entitled The Secret. The central message of The Secret is that you can have everything you want in life by visualizing and thinking happy thoughts about it. This will supposedly trigger the law of attraction, which enables yours goals to miraculously appear. It’s a wonderful idea that has been embraced by millions. If the process was that easy, everyone who has positive thoughts would be happy, thin, rich, successful, and enjoying a wonderful relationship. I have read the book and practice the technique in my personal and professional life. I usually get the things that I want most in life, but I think has more to do with other factors that I use to achieve my goals and realize my full potential.
1. Decide exactly what you want. You cannot hit a target that you cannot see. When you decide exactly what you want in each area of your life, you increase likelihood that you will achieve these goals five or tenfold.
2. Write it down. A goal that is not in writing is merely a wish or fantasy. A wish is a goal with no energy behind it. When you write down your goal, you active your three learning modalities: auditory, visual and kinesthetic. You envision and subvocal the goal as you write it. And because you are using your hand, wrist, and arm to write it, you are activating your kinesthetic sense as well. As a result of activating your three learning modalities, the writing down of your goal actually transfers and programs it into your super-conscious mind. It's like saving it to your hard drive and having it become a permanent part of your memory operating system.
3. Set a deadline. The more specific and precise you are about your deadlines, the more rapidly you active your mental powers to move you toward your goal, and your goal toward you.
4. List everything you need to achieve your goal. The greatest enemies of success are our own doubts and fears. We aspire to better things in each of our lives, but we doubt our ability to achieve them. When you make a list of every single thing you could do to achieve your goal, something happens to your fears, they begin to dissipate. Simultaneously, your confidence and faith in the attainment of those goals increases.
5. Take action. If you take action in the direction of your goals, only two things can happen: success or failure. If you succeed, you do more and improve. If you fail, you learn from it and try again, or try something else.
6. Determine the additional knowledge and skills needed. For you to achieve something new, you have to learn and practice something that you never learned and practiced before. What one skill, if excellently developed and used, would help you the most to achieve your goal?
7. Keep persevering. The most important part of the real secret of success, once you know exactly what you want and take all of the requisite steps to achieve it, is persistence. Your ability to be absolutely clear about what you want and to throw your whole heart into achieving it, backed by relentless persistence and determination, is the final element in the real secret of success. You have within you, right now, more talent and ability than you could use in a hundred lifetimes. Your job is to unlock your full potential for success and achievement by deciding what you want and then by never giving up until you reach it.
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